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The Cool Kids Table – Now With Better Furniture

The Cool Kids Table – Now With Better Furniture

The Cliques Never Really Went Away I have been thinking a lot about the "cool kids table" from high school. I did not sit there. The cool kids knew me, but I was not invited to their parties. I was not picked on, and I was not some total outsider either. I lived in...

Human Interaction (H.I.) Manifesto

Human Interaction (H.I.) Manifesto

Why People Matter More Than Ever in an AI-Driven World I have been talking about this topic of Human Interaction (H.I.) for a long time. Not because it was trendy. Not because it was easy to package. Not because it sounded futuristic. I have been talking about Human...

Upcoming Book, Vibe by Adam Grant

Adam Grant’s new book Vibe is a signal, and meeting planners should pay attention I just saw the announcement for Adam Grant’s upcoming book, Vibe: The Secrets of Strong Connections in a Lonely World, coming October 13, 2026. I’ve admired Dr. Grant for years. He does...

Lawyers and Business Development / Sales

Relationship selling is way better than transactional selling, especially in the law firm world where trust and risk matter more than clever pitches. If you are in business development and somebody is already working with one of your competitors, it is hard to unseat...

Manifesting More Friends in 2026

In my last post I wrote about the “overnight success” of the actors from Heated Rivalry, and now my social media is feeding me every possible clip of Hudson Williams and Connor Storrie. If you ever needed proof that the internet is both brilliant and ridiculous, here...

Overnight Success, Years of Work in Disguise

Overnight Success, Years of Work in Disguise

Momentum Is Not Magic. Showing up and doing the work is the key to a breakthrough opportunity. Every now and then you see someone explode onto the scene and the world calls it an overnight success. It feels like they went from nowhere to everywhere in a blink. They...